Did you ever watch Legally blonde? In one scene in the beauty shop the actress was demonstrating the bend and snap method of gaining some desirable attention. The method outlined below is, I’m sure, known to us all in some way, but I am just going to illustrate one form of it.
Venturing into the world of sexy BBW leather might be a challenge to some and sheer joy to others. You ask, when I do decide to wear some leather lingerie, how will I know my lover will actually like it?
Well, it’s not something you would generally surprise someone with unless you know them really well. First of all, if you are a leather virgin – it might be helpful to read the article Plus Size Leather and the Timid Flower.
If you have leather lingerie already or are eager to jump in, then you might try the tease and simmer approach.
For example, you have a sexy, curve enhancing leather bustier. If you are a little unsure of your partners reaction, wear it under an open jacket or top so it can be seen but doesn’t fully reveal its charm. Your partner will be checking it out through your whole date and it may stimulate comment or you may have a very clear picture of what they think about it ie. Can’t wait to get you home and check out the entire package!
When it comes to something like a cupless leather bustier or crotchless vinyl teddy, I would suggest this step be taken after you have found out how your partner has appreciated the milder leather styles. The tease and simmer method will still work but instead of the tease being the partial view of what you have on, try this - just before you go out – let your partner know exactly what you are wearing under that proper-looking outfit.
I would really enjoy hearing about how the Tease and Simmer method has worked for you.